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Name: Amy
Country: United States
State: South Dakota
Birthday: 9/24/1986
Gender: Female


Interests: Christianity & spirituality, history, news, psychology, geography, board games, German language & culture, movies, music
Expertise: I excel in three areas: Super Mario Brothers, shopping, and knocking things over.
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Member Since: 11/7/2004

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Saturday, June 14, 2008

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More coming soon...hopefully.


Monday, February 04, 2008

I was just thinking about how much I like the book He's Just Not that Into You by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo.  No, I wasn't secretly hired by their publishing company to plug the book in my blog.  (What a foolish waste of money that would be...i don't think anyone reads this!!)  Essentially, the book breaks down into chapters the types of guys who are emotionally unavailable, and tells women why they shouldn't date them.  I like the book because of the theme:  don't go above and beyond for a guy who couldn't care less about you.   What a simple, obvious revelation, and yet I think most women have shamelessly pursued guys who just don't care about them.  No, the guys aren't always necessarily jerks. They simply may not return a woman's feelings.  Even if the guy is an upstanding fellow, I don't believe any woman should waste her time and emotion over someone who doesn't care about her.  There are so many people in this world, and there's always bound to be a guy who will be as crazy about a girl as she is him.  See, I think people in a relationship should care about each other proportionally....it's not healthy to have one party head over heels and the other person only marginally interested.  Basically, what I'm trying to say is I like this book I read because it acknowledges a common problem, but tells women what is so true....we need to rise above our desperation for a man and just do a little waiting until Mr. Right comes along.

Now what kind of point could I prove without evidence?  I can look at virtually all of my friends who are in stable, loving relationships, and pair the same people with past relationships that were terrible...and in most cases, it's because one person cares at a different level than the other person.  It's such a worthless, pathetic, miserable cycle- I can say that because I've been part of it. 

A relationship does take work, but not just by one person.  Both parties should work at it.  If you're the only one working for the relationship, what's the point?

At the risk of sounding annoyingly idealistic, especially around Valentine's Day, you really do just have to wait for that right person to come around.  I know, I know. Why listen to me?  I've got it so easy, having a boyfriend and all.  But I think I've earned my right to talk about this.  A year ago, I wrote another blog entry bitterly condemning  Valetine's Day.  But it was all just a facade for my unhappiness at being single.  I went almost twenty years without being in a relationship that gave me any sort of happiness.  Mostly due to my own mistakes, but because of some other factors too, I allowed my heart to get broken several times...by the same person!  Greg and Liz would hve killed me!  I think I  know a little bit about being alone, as everyone does.  The key is to hold out and hope.  All I can share is my experience, and my experience has been, as cliche as it sounds, that you find something meaningful when you're not looking for it.   So hold on, ya'all.   if you're dreading Valentine's Day this year, just as I was last year, you may surely be as lightheaded about it as I am this year by next Valentine's Day.   If it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone. 


Thursday, November 22, 2007

Currently Listening
All the Lost Souls
By James Blunt
Same Mistake
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I cringe when I read the former things I have written on here.  Most of my entries remain only because I have a strange sense of humor.  Maybe I should start writing on here again, but actually put some thought into my entries.  I will think about that indeed.


Saturday, July 07, 2007

"Since U Been Gone"--Kelly Clarkson

Here's the thing we started off friends
It was cool but it was all pretend
Yeah yeah
Since U Been Gone

You dedicated you took the time
Wasn't long till I called you mine
Yeah Yeah
Since U Been Gone

And all you'd ever hear me say
Is how I pictured me with you
That's all you'd ever hear me say

But Since U Been Gone
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on
Yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get
What I want
Since U Been Gone

How can I put it? you put me on
I even fell for that stupid love song
Yeah yeah
Since U Been Gone

How come I'd never hear you say
I just wanna be with you
I guess you never felt that way

But Since U Been Gone
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on
Yeah yeah
Thanks to you
Now I get
I get what I want
Since U Been Gone

You had your chance you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth I just can't take it
Again and again and again and again

Since U Been Gone
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on
Yeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get
I get what I want
I can breathe for the first time
Im so movin on
Yeah yeah
Thanks to you (thanks to you)
Now I get (I get)
You should know (you should know)
That I get
I get what I want
Since U Been Gone
Since U Been Gone
Since U Been Gone


Saturday, June 16, 2007

 

What is it....you're never supposed to discuss religion, sex, or politics?   I've breeched all three of those guidelines.   I believe all three can be discussed...as long as it's with an appropriate audience, at an appropriate time, and handled appropriately.  What does all that mean?  Well, only dicuss those topics when the time is right, in a non-judgemental, non-argumentative way, with people you feel comfortable doing so with.  

Out of the three, politics makes me the most uncomfortable.  Although I am spiritual with clearly defined personal beliefs, I am tolerant of others' religions and beliefs.   I also accept many opinions about sex, as it's a generally a good thing (when practiced responsibly and at the right time of course.)  

But politics...there's so much room for disagreement.  Basically, I have come to distrust the entire poltical system of the United States.  Because of the uncomfortable feeling I get when I think about politics, it doesn't really interest me to investigate other political systems.  However, my general opinion is that we, as people, are seriously flawed, so consequently any political system we create will be as well.  It just seems like both parties are growing increasingly corrupt and only serve special interests.  Once we elect one of two people who actually belong to parties that are close on the larger political spectrum, it seems like we lose all say in the government.  Those who are vunerable fall victim to poverty and other ills, and those who are strong are protected by loopholes and their rich friends.   I know that's a very cynical way to look at things, but that's just the way I feel.



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